It’s almost summer, the perfect time for adventures and no-strings-attached flings! Summer flings and casual sex relationships can create a laid-back situation for fun, partnership and sex! These types of relationships aren’t for everyone, though. Check out these tips for having a great summer fling and see if it’s the right fit for you!
Is this my style?
If you are seeking revenge on your current partner or ex, or taking the opportunity to find a rebound, summer flings or casual sex is not the way to go. If you are in a relationship, this will damage it even further; your partner won’t be able to trust you anymore if they believe you will date someone else to get back at them. If jealously is your goal, your ex may just see this as you moving on. And if you are looking for a summer rebound, you might find yourself too attached to your casual partner, which may not be what your fling wants at all.
Honesty is the key.
If you find someone who wants to have a casual fling with you, be totally honest about what you want. Know each other’s boundaries and determine that you both only want a temporary setup. That way, you both know how and when it is going to end.
What if it develops into something more?
If your fling does develop into some more meaningful to you, talk to your partner about this and make sure they are aware of your new feelings. It’s not fair to either of you to change the terms of your relationship without telling them. Talk about it with them and give some serious thought to whether your relationship is strong enough to last.
Be safe.
Have the talk about safe sex. Even though it’s just a fling, you want to make sure you stay STI free! Don’t be afraid to ask about their STI status and take actions to protect yourself. Always use a condom!
Have fun!
Enjoy yourself. After all, it’s summer! You have a summer love – someone to make the hot nights even hotter!
