To some, Valentine’s Day triggers a huge gag reflex. To others, Valentine’s Day can be a romantic day to celebrate your love with that special someone. Because this column is devoted to relationships in every shade of gray, I’ll highlight some things to do in the middle of February whether you are practically engaged or completely broken-hearted.
Single and Ready to Mingle.
If you have been single for a while and the idea of Valentine’s Day doesn’t make you sick, go out with a single friend and celebrate love. Send cards to your family and friends in nice relationships. If you want to date in the near future, use Valentine’s Day as the final day to celebrate your singlehood. On February 15, make yourself available to someone new.
Ketchup is Red Too.
When the relationship is new, the idea of an elaborate Valentine’s Day is daunting. The frills seem overwhelming; however, you should still do something with your significant other. I recommend venturing downtown and going to a place where no couples will be. Grab burgers at a grungy joint or spend an hour in a Brookstone store trying out every gadget. Have fun together – it’s Valentine’s Day.
Crazy in Love.
So you’ve recently broken up with Mr. Right or even Ms. Wrong. Maybe she stopped returning your phone calls. No matter how painful the breakup was, Valentine’s Day is going to be terrible. Do not try and suppress these feelings. I say watch a romantic comedy and cry. Eat too much candy. Go to a restaurant where couples are eating and start screaming. Do what you need to do to let it out.
Will You Be My Valentine?
If you are in a long-term, committed relationship, do the romantic thing. Get dressed up and celebrate the holiday of love. Do not spend too much money on gifts. Use whatever cash you want to spend on food or entertainment for the evening. Or use it on champagne for the after party.
